From Friend to Enemy: A Hmong Girl’s Story

Warning: This story is for mature audiences and contains strong sexual content that may not be appropriate for some readers.

I met Goua Hli during the first year of high school in English class. We were the only two Hmong girls in the class, so we became friends pretty quickly. Goua Hli was a very tall, slim, beautiful, outgoing Hmong girl, while I, on the other hand, was considered short, a little overweight, quiet, and shy.

As the school year progressed, we discovered that we both shared a desire to become school teachers after college. We both wanted to see one another succeed, so we ended up spending a lot of time studying together and socializing outside of school.

After high school, Goua Hli and I attended the same college, as we were both majoring in the same field. We both enrolled in the same classes and committed to motivating and supporting each other. But not long after we started college, Goua Hli met Vue, who would become her boyfriend and change the course of our friendship forever.

About a month into their relationship was when Goua Hli finally introduced us to Vue. He was a very handsome, tall man with a slim, well-built physique and a smile that could melt any girl’s heart. His personality was extremely down-to-earth, with a great sense of humor, and he was often joking around.

Not long after meeting him, I started to develop a crush and secretly wished that Goua Hli would bring him around more often. Even though I knew it was wrong of me to think this way about my best friend’s boyfriend, I couldn’t help but secretly admire him from afar.

Whenever Goua Hli brought Vue around, I would get extremely nervous and shy. I didn’t want anyone to think that I had a crush on him, so I did my best to avoid any contact with him. Even though I tried, I still couldn’t keep my eyes from looking when he smiles.

Goua Hli and Vue’s relationship began to go south as the first semester of college neared its end. It was during this time that it became apparent that Goua Hli and Vue were experiencing issues with their relationship. For one, ever since they started dating, her attendance has been horrible, but then she suddenly started showing up to class again, and it was noticeable that she wasn’t on the phone as frequently.

It wasn’t until our end-of-the-semester get-together that Goua Hli came by herself and finally announced that they had broken up. She explained that their relationship became too toxic for her to bear, and she had had enough of insecurities and frequent arguments. They both tried to work things out multiple times, but they were just two different people and couldn’t agree on the same things. So in the end, she ended the relationship with him.

After the breakup, Goua Hli completely cut off contact with Vue and just like that, he was no longer around. It wasn’t until about eight months later that I bumped into him at my cousin’s house party. That was when I discovered that Vue also secretly had a crush on me.

That night, I arrived at the party after work. As I approached the house from the street, I caught a glimpse of Vue staring at me, but I continued walking, pretending not to notice him. I quickly walked past everyone and was almost at the front door when I felt a tap on my shoulder, prompting me to turn back.

Vue greeted me with his beautiful smile and asked, “Do you remember me?” I smiled back and told him, “Of course!” Before quickly turning back towards the front door to hide my excitement.

As I was about to walk into the house, I heard one of my cousins talking to Vue, telling him I was single and that he was willing to help if Vue was interested in dating me. The thought of Vue and me dating sent my emotions soaring as I entered the house and closed the door behind me.

A few minutes later, one of my cousins, along with Vue, came into the house, grabbed a bottle of liquor from the freezer, and began pouring shots for everyone.

Vue and my cousin made their rounds around the house, pouring shots for everyone. When it was finally my turn to take the shot, Vue asked if he could take it with me, which completely threw me off, since he hadn’t taken it with anyone else.

I had never had alcohol before in my whole life, and was terrified and nervous to try it. I hesitated to drink the shot, but after a couple of smiles and words of reassurance and encouragement from Vue, I ended up taking too many shots and getting drunk for the first time.

The shots really loosened me up as I was no longer shy around Vue. Not long after, we both ended up outside together to talk in private. At first, we were playing catch-up as we caught each other up on our lives, but things got interesting when he began venting about his past relationship with Goua Hli.

Vue essentially explained their entire relationship from start to finish, including why they broke up and why it didn’t work out. He was pretty intoxicated and slurring his words a bit, but he seemed sincere and genuine.

Apparently, Goua Hli cheated on him, which was the reason for the breakup. A friend of Vue’s friends saw her with another man, and when Vue confronted her about it, she became agitated and smashed his phone.

Even after all of that, he tried to work it out, but it just got too toxic, so he eventually called it quits. He then caught me off guard when he mentioned that Goua Hli loved to talk shit about me and some of the other girls. By the time he was done, I felt completely different towards her.

Vue was getting agitated talking about Gao Hli, so I asked to change the topic. He apologized for venting and surprised me by asking for my number. I was shocked by this and asked him why he wanted it. He looked at me, told me he liked me, and then asked for it again. I gave it to him, and then he started flirting with me.

I was surprised to discover that he had always thought I was adorable. He tried to flatter me by lying that I was the best-looking girl in the group, even better-looking than Goua Hli, which I didn’t believe. He then proceeded to stare me down from head to toe and made a comment about my figure, my breasts, and how he wanted to squeeze them so bad.

Hearing this gave me a boost of confidence, so I jokingly called him a perv and asked him to stop staring, even though I was secretly liking it.
He continued to flirt for a couple of minutes before he took my hands unexpectedly and pulled me to the side of the house.

He pushed me against the wall and positioned himself in front of me. With both of his hands wrapped around my waist, he whispered, “Can I touch you?” Mesmerized by everything happening, I looked him in the eyes and whispered confidently, “A real man doesn’t ask.”

With no hesitation, Vue lifted my shirt and pulled my bra down. With both hands, he squeezed and played with my breasts before he leaned over to kiss my neck. The excitement from all of this started to make my entire body tremble, which made me feel really embarrassed. Regardless, I don’t think Vue cared as he continued to touch and kiss me as I stood there, completely submitted to him, loving every single second of it.

“Am I man enough for you?” Vue whispered in my ear as he gently squeezed my nipples between his fingers. All I could do was nod my head in confirmation and hope that this moment lasted forever. He then whispered, “I bet your pussy is wet,” as he reached down to unbutton my pants.

As my pants became undone, his hand slid underneath my panties and in between my legs. He wasted no time and began rubbing his fingers on my clitoris and my vagina. It felt so good, I wrapped both my arms around his neck to steady myself, while he continued to rub between my legs.

In the heat of the moment, I reached down to unbuckle his pants and stuck my hand inside. I gently touch his dick with my fingers before pulling it out to stroke it. I held it tightly in my hand and began stroking it, which made it harder and stiffer, as he continued to rub between my legs.

After stroking his dick for a minute or so, I could feel semen gradually coming out of the tip and onto my hand. Not knowing what to do since I’ve never jerked anyone off before, I decided to put his dick in my mouth and started sucking it. I placed the tip of his dick in my mouth and could feel it getting harder, as he let out a loud but soft moan, which turned me on.

Just as I was about to ask him to fuck me, we were suddenly interrupted when one of my cousins appeared out of nowhere to pee by the side of the house. Thankfully, it was really dark, so he didn’t see us, or he would have seen what we were doing.

Not wanting to risk getting caught, I grabbed Vue’s hand, and we rushed to the back seat of my car down the street.

Without saying a single word, he stripped me completely naked and asked me to lie down on my back. He spread my legs apart and took off his pants. Without any hesitation, he shoved his dick inside me, causing a quick, sudden, and sharp pain which made me scream a little.

Sex at first was very uncomfortable. The pain only lasted a couple of minutes before it gradually subsided, probably because the alcohol made me numb.

As the pain went away, I began to feel pleasure that I’ve never felt before. He wasn’t doing it fast, but with every stroke, he made sure to push it in as deep as he could, which felt so good. I couldn’t help but lose my breath and moan every time he was all the way in.

After a couple of minutes of slow sex, he suddenly threw himself over me and wrapped his arms around my neck. His rhythm changes as he begins doing it harder and faster. I could feel his penis getting really stiff inside of me.

I couldn’t help but wrap my arms around him tightly and bite my lips as I lay there trying to be as quiet as possible. But with each stroke, moans would escape my mouth even as I did my best to stop them.

Suddenly, his grip became stronger as he squeezed my body with his arms. He let out a loud moan and violently thrust his penis a couple more times before stopping, but trembling and shaking uncontrollably as he ejaculated inside me.

He paused for a moment to catch his breath before getting up to sit next to me. When he pulled his dick out of my vagina, I could feel semen gushing out of me and running down my butt. He quickly put on his pants and told me to get dressed quickly for fear that someone would see us together.

I was a little disappointed to hear him say that, since it seemed like he was embarrassed to be seen with me. I quickly put my clothes back on and sat down next to him. He grabbed my hands, looked me in the eyes, and asked me not to tell anyone about what just happened. I only nodded as he opened the door, got out of the vehicle, and went back to the party.

I sat quietly in the back of my car, thinking of what to do next and how to make sense of everything that had just happened. A million questions ran through my mind as I sat there wondering if I had just been used or if he really did like me. Why would a guy cum inside of a girl he doesn’t like, right? There must have been a reason why he chose to do it. So many scenarios played in my head as I sat in the backseat with my head spinning in circles.

After about ten minutes, I received a text message from an unknown number telling me to come back to the party. I had forgotten that I had given my phone number to Vue earlier, and I was delighted that he had texted me. In a way, this confirmed that he indeed did like me. I smiled to myself, grabbed a napkin and wiped the semen between my legs, and went back to the party.

For the next couple of weeks, Vue would frequently reach out to me “to hang out,” which ended up turning into a sex marathon. He was extremely sexually active and would want to fuck me everywhere we were. He has a kink for dresses and would often ask me to wear them. To him, the shorter the better… No wonder Goua Li was always wearing mini-skirts and dresses.

Besides having sex in the back seat of his car in random places, his next choice of place to take me was to a park across town in a quiet, secluded neighborhood. The park is next to a wooded area and this was the spot where we mainly had sex.

He would park close to the wooded area and ask me to take off my underwear before getting out. We would walk into the wooded area, and as soon as we were away from view, he would push me down against a tree, bend me over, pull my dress up, and start fucking me until he cum in me.

Having him cum in me was one of the best feelings ever, since his dick gets extremely hard right before it happens, and I felt loved by him. Also knowing that I pleasured him to the point of orgasm also made me feel very good about myself.

Whenever we were done, he would ask me to spread my legs and watch his semen drip out of me as if he were proud to have done it. He told me he loves seeing me bent over naked in a public area, and we would repeat this multiple times a day. Usually, by the time I’m back home, my pussy would be sore as hell. Of course, not long after all of our adventures, I became pregnant.

I was terrified at the thought of being a mom, but at the same time, I was happy to be having Vue’s baby. Not knowing how he would react, I waited a couple of days before showing him the pregnancy test. To my surprise, his face lit up as he grabbed my hands and gave me a big kiss on my forehead. He immediately suggested we should get married and began planning a day when he would take me home. Of course, we both celebrated with him, taking me back to the wooded area, and I let him do whatever he wanted to.

A month passed, and we both had our traditional wedding celebration. Vue asked me to quit my job to be a stay-at-home wife so I can help his elderly mother around the house while he works to provide for us.

I haven’t spoken to Goua Hli for a minute, but after Vue and I got married, there was a rumor going around about how Vue was cheating with me when they were both dating.

According to these rumors, I got between Goua Hli and Vue, which was why they broke up. This rumor didn’t bother me since I knew it wasn’t true, so I ignored it. It wasn’t until I heard another rumor that Vue and Goua Hli had supposedly been seen together that I began to worry.

For some apparent reason, Goua Hli couldn’t get over the fact that Vue and I were married now. She was convinced that I was the girl Vue cheated with, and now she’s on a vendetta against me. She was willing to do anything and everything to destroy my relationship with Vue.

I did my best to ignore it at first, but as I heard more about it, I became furious and very suspicious of Vue’s recent behavior. He started working later and would take forever to reply to my text messages. His sex drive also went down and he was always tired whenever he came home from work.

One evening, while Vue was supposed to be at work, a friend of mine called and told me she had seen someone who looked like Vue with Goua Hli at the park. I asked her for the name of the park and it was the old park where Vue and I used to go.

After talking to her, I was furious but heartbroken. I wanted to get to the bottom of all of this, so I developed a plan to find out. I needed access to Vue’s phone to determine if he had been communicating with Goua Hli, but getting hold of it would be challenging since he always kept it with him, even when he was asleep.

After thinking for a while, I came up with a plan. I knew that Vue loved to drink and wouldn’t pass up an opportunity. I planned to allow him to get drunk until he passed out so I could take his phone from him. I waited until there was a family gathering and volunteered to be his designated driver. I told him he could drink and have as much fun as he liked as long as he made it home before passing out. He liked the idea and we agreed on it.

After the gathering, he was so drunk that he barely made it to our house before passing out on our bed. I gave him a couple of slaps on the face to make sure he was dead asleep before I reached into his pocket to grab his phone.

With his phone in my hands, my heart started to beat faster as I waited to unlock it, not knowing what to expect. My first initiative was to check his Facebook account and see who he’s been talking to. I scrolled through all of his conversations and didn’t see anything suspicious. I went through his Instagram, Snapchat, Twitter, WhatsApp, email, and TikTok accounts and found no sign of him cheating at all. I thoroughly searched his phone, each app by app, and found absolutely nothing.

I lightened up a bit and started to calm my nerves before convincing myself that maybe the person that my friend saw wasn’t Vue after all. She did mention that she didn’t get a good look at his face, so she couldn’t confirm if it were him.

As I was about to put his phone back, I remembered that Vue had taken a lot of pictures at the family gathering earlier and I wanted to see them. I quickly scanned through the pictures and looked for the ones with me in them to see how I looked. He is a horrible photographer because all the photos with me looked awful.

I didn’t like how I looked in the pictures, so I deleted them before returning the phone, then left to take a shower. While in the shower, I soon realized that I had made a big mistake! I had deleted pictures from his phone and he would definitely notice they were gone! I quickly got out of the shower, got dressed, and ran back into our room. I was relieved to see that he was still passed out, snoring on the bed.

I rushed over to him and slowly pulled his phone out of his pocket. I opened up his gallery and hurried to undelete the pictures from the trash. As I made my way down to recover all the images I’d just deleted, I saw something that made my heart drop.

There they were, a deleted video with Goua Hli’s face as the thumbnail in the trash folder. My body froze in fear as I couldn’t believe my eyes. My mind went blank as I had just found evidence that my husband had indeed been cheating on me. My hands started to shake uncontrollably as I slowly found the courage to watch the video, knowing that this was the end of my relationship with him.

It appears that Goua Hli had been giving Vue oral sex before he started to record them in the back of a car. He was already completely naked, sitting down with Goua Hli in between his legs with her head turned sideways licking his dick up and down. I watched her put his dick in her mouth and rubbed his balls as he softly moaned. She slurped and gagged on his dick as she went down on it, repeatedly asking Vue if she was better than me.

She continued to give him oral until Vue could be heard telling her to get on top of him. At this point in the video, neither of their face was visible anymore, but you could hear them both moaning with Goua Hli continuing to ask if she was better than me. I stopped the video because I couldn’t watch anymore.

Feeling betrayed, I ran out of the room and straight to his parents to show them the video. They were both shocked by the revelation and immediately sided with me. We all walked back into the room to talk to Vue, but he was still passed out. They tried a couple of times to wake him up, but he didn’t. They promised to talk with him when he was up and coherent and made sure to let me know how disappointed they were in him.

I barely slept, but the next morning, my in-laws came into our room and woke us both up. They gave Vue an earful and asked why he did what he did. He played dumb at first, acting clueless about the whole situation. But the moment I mentioned the video in his trash folder on his phone, he became very quiet and stared at me in an intimidated way. He just sat there motionless as his parents lectured him, refusing to answer any further questions.

It wasn’t until a few days after the confrontation that Vue finally confessed to his parents and me the ongoing affair with Goua Hli, admitting it had never truly ended even after our marriage. He didn’t ask me for forgiveness, but claimed that it was a mistake driven by old habits and feelings and that I should find it in my heart to understand. He gave me the options to “understand” or leave.

I couldn’t stand his betrayal and the pain he caused me, so I left. His parents urged me to find common ground with him and to work things out for the sake of our unborn child, but the future and dreams that I once envisioned for us had already vanished. My mind was made up; I had no desire to be with him, and there was no turning back.

We divorced quietly and I moved back in with my parents. I gave birth to my daughter at the hospital with only my mother by my side. Raising my daughter as a single mother was the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life, but it became my new reality. My days were marked by sleepless nights and the regret of letting Vue into my life. Not once after our divorce did Vue attempt to contact me or ask about his daughter. I thought about getting child support from him, but I also enjoyed the absence of his presence. In the end, I made the right choice and life was better without him. Thank you for reading.

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